In this episode of The Healers Café, Dr. Manon Bolliger, ND, chats with Dr Debi Silber, Founder and CEO, The PBT (Post Betrayal Transformation) Institute
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Highlights from today's episode include:
Dr. Debi Silber
But we've all heard Time heals all wounds. And there's a question on the quiz that reads, is there anything else you'd like to share? And people are sharing things like, my betrayal happened 40 years ago, I can still feel the hate. My betrayal happened 35 years ago, I'm still unwilling to trust, my betrayal happened 10 years ago, it feels like it happened yesterday. So that saying of Time heals all wounds, I have the proof that's not true.
Dr. Debi Silber
Betrayal attacks the entire self and the whole self has to be rebuilt. Confidence, a sense of belonging, rejection, worthiness, trust. So when that's all rebuilt, it didn't kind of qualify as post-traumatic growth. It was really Post Traumatic Growth plus rebuilding of the self. So I've coined a new term post betrayal transformation. So when you have fully healed from betrayal, that's the state you're in.
Dr. Debi Silber
So most people find themselves in this perpetual holding pattern, which is stage three. That's where most people land and stay, if you're willing to let go of your story and all the benefits you get, and all of that you can move to stage four. Stage four is finding and adjusting to a new normal. Here's where you accept, I cannot change this scenario, this situation, but I can control the meaning I make, what I do with it, all of it.
About Dr. Debi Silber
Dr. Debi Silber is the founder of the Post Betrayal Transformation Institute and is a holistic psychologist, a health, mindset and personal development expert, the author of the #1 bestselling book: The Unshakable Woman: 4 Steps to Rebuilding Your Body, Mind and Life After a Life Crisis and her newest book: Trust Again. Her recent PhD study on how we experience betrayal made 3 ground-breaking discoveries that changes how long it takes to heal. In addition to being on FOX, CBS, The Dr. Oz Show, TED; and more, she’s an award-winning speaker, coach and author dedicated to helping people move past their betrayals as well as any other blocks preventing them from the health, work, finances, relationships, confidence and happiness they want most.
Core purpose / passion: I believe betrayal is one of the most painful of the human experiences. I vowed that if I were able to heal, help as many other people as I can do the same. It’s been the greatest thrill to see people broken hearted, depressed, sick, sad and stuck and watch them transform on every level.
About Dr. Manon Bolliger, ND:
Dr. Manon is a Naturopathic Doctor, the Founder of Bowen College, an International Speaker, she did a TEDx talk "Your Body is Smarter Than You Think. Why Aren’t You Listening?" in Jan 2021, and is the author of Amazon best-selling books "What Patient's Don't Say if Doctors Don't Ask". & "A Healer in Every Household" For more great information to go to her weekly blog: http://bowencollege.com/blog.
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